It was a radiant day in May 2019. The sun bathed Cambridge in a golden glow as I stepped out of the Senate House, draped in a black gown, clutching the delicate, almost fragile sheet of my PhD certificate. I was smiling, buoyed by a forward-moving courage and the unmistakable thrill of accomplishment. Yet beneath the smile lingered a subtle shadow, a quiet, familiar disappointment.
This feeling was not new:
"If only I had completed my degree, I would be happy"
"If only I could find my life partner, I would be happy"
"If only I got promoted, I would be happy"
"If only I bought a house, I would be happy"
"If only I found my next job, I would be happy"
Perhaps you know this feeling too. We chase milestone after milestone, believing the next achievement will finally deliver the satisfaction we crave. Yet when the goal is reached, the joy often falls short of what we imagined. In the relentless pursuit, we overlook countless small, precious moments - moments we never paused to notice, savour, or cherish.
Looking at my ever-expanding CV and accomplishments, I felt lost, uncertain, quietly insecure, perhaps much like you. Success alone cannot bring peace if we are not living in alignment with what truly matters to us. Each day can feel disconnected from ourselves, no matter how accomplished we appear on the outside.
That's why I began a journey to become myself. Life is vast and full of unknown possibilities, and within this space I am learning to carve a life that feels genuinely mine. I invite you to walk this path alongside me.
As your coach, I will be your travelling partner on this journey. Feeling stuck or uncertain? That's natural. Stepping into uncharted territory takes courage - the courage to try new things, to navigate even if you get lost, to question old beliefs, and to face yourself honestly. You will not be alone. Together, we will explore the path, uncover your insights, and find the skills and breakthroughs that are uniquely yours.